where is the love?

February 12th, 2008 by i-m-koh-kae-ling

To

Homo sapiens

Where Is The Love?"
What’s wrong with the world, mama
People livin’ like they ain’t got no mamas
I think the whole world
addicted to the drama
Only attracted to things that’ll bring you trauma
Overseas, yeah, we try to stop terrorism
But we still got terrorists here livin’
In the USA, the big CIA
The Bloods and The Crips and the KKK
But if you only have love for your own race
Then you only leave space to discriminate
And to discriminate only generates hate
And when you hate then you’re bound to get irate, yeah
Madness is what you demonstrate
And that’s exactly how anger works and operates
Man, you gotta have love just to set it straight
Take control of your mind and meditate
Let your soul gravitate to the love, y’all, y’all

People killin’, people dyin’
Children hurt and you hear them cryin’
Can you practice what you preach
And would you turn the other cheek

Father, Father, Father help us
Send some guidance from above
‘Cause people got me, got me questionin’
Where is the love (Love)

Where is the love (The love)
Where is the love (The love)
Where is the love
The love, the love

It just ain’t the same, always unchanged
New days are strange, is the world insane
If love and peace is so strong
Why are there pieces of love that don’t belong
Nations droppin’ bombs
Chemical gasses fillin’ lungs of little ones
With ongoin’ sufferin’ as the youth die young
So ask yourself is the lovin’ really gone
So I could ask myself really what is goin’ wrong
In this world that we livin’ in people keep on givin’
in
Makin’ wrong decisions, only visions of them dividends
Not respectin’ each other, deny thy brother
A war is goin’ on but the reason’s undercover
The truth is kept secret, it’s swept under the rug
If you never know truth then you never know love
Where’s the love, y’all, come on (I don’t know)
Where’s the truth, y’all, come on (I don’t know)
Where’s the love, y’all

People killin’, people dyin’
Children hurt and you hear them cryin’
Can you practice what you preach
And would you turn the other cheek

Father, Father, Father help us
Send some guidance from above
‘Cause people got me, got me questionin’
Where is the love (Love)

Where is the love (The love)
Where is the love (The love)
Where is the love (The love)
Where is the love (The love)
Where is the love, the love, the love?

I feel the weight of the world on my shoulder
As I’m gettin’ older, y’all, people gets colder
Most of us only care about money makin’
Selfishness got us followin’ our wrong direction
Wrong information always shown by the media
Negative images is the main criteria
Infecting the young minds faster than bacteria
Kids wanna act like what they see in the cinema
Yo’, whatever happened to the values of humanity
Whatever happened to the fairness in equality
Instead of spreading love we’re spreading animosity
Lack of understanding, leading lives away from unity
That’s the reason why sometimes I’m feelin’ under
That’s the reason why sometimes I’m feelin’ down
There’s no wonder why sometimes I’m feelin’ under
Gotta keep my faith alive till love is found
Now ask yourself

Where is the love?
Where is the love?
Where is the love?
Where is the love?

Father, Father, Father help us
Send some guidance from above
‘Cause people got me, got me questionin’
Where is the love?

Sing wit me y’all:
One world, one world (We only got)
One world, one world (That’s all we got)
One world, one world
And something’s wrong wit it (Yeah)
Something’s wrong wit it (Yeah)
Something’s wrong wit the wo-wo-world, yeah
We only got
(One world, one world)
That’s all we got
(One world, one world)

By

Black Eyed Peas.

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外婆

July 29th, 2007 by i-m-koh-kae-ling

从呱呱落地开始有一双粗糙但温柔的手小心呵护

用那纯熟的手势牵引 我笑了 您的老皱的脸也笑了

嗯 财富的不富有不算什么 心理的爱是温暖实在的

我在你的怀中留下今天发黄的照片

黄黄灰灰的 依稀看见笑盈盈的轮廓

***

有时候你会来我家小住 当爸妈不在家时 或者逼不得以时

你吃面包搽牛油 加上浓浓的黑咖啡

为什么早餐喝这种东西 苦苦的 呵一口复杂的香

***

为什么以前一些平凡不过的话语 如今记忆如此的深刻

是因为往事已不在 回不去而惆怅?

还是当时单纯的心灵所接受的爱 到今天才发现 其实不是理所当然

有些感受永远不能重复

***

‘看书不要驼背 把书垫高点不就行了吗?’

‘被蚊子咬没药搽时 涂点口水就不痒了’

‘想当年二次大战时 在胶林 共产党的人向我们讨食物。。。’

‘努力读书 婆婆没什么好给你的’

曾经不时在耳边响起的叮咛 当时觉得厌烦 没想到年龄越大 越遥远了

***

对不起 生活有做不完的杂事 时间的脚步无法稍缓片刻

残酷的 人总得经历生老病死

当你在几年前开始叫不出我的名 我们开始接受事实了

死 没有太震撼的悲伤 因为这是慢慢累积的

但幽幽的 轻悄悄 忍着离别的煎熬

我一定陪你到最后 虽然我什么都给不了 真的什么都给不了

***

那一天 我梦见了 仿佛解开病痛的枷锁

你 装上翅膀自由的在天空翱翔了

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上班下班后。。。

July 29th, 2007 by i-m-koh-kae-ling

上班下班后。。。

终于从兴奋地高呼 ‘yeah i got my first job!!’ 到今天的 monday blue @@@ (从天堂掉到地狱??)

也许,找到心爱的工作才能幸免吧??

但是,真爱是最难寻的呗!!哈哈哈。。 wa ki siao liao~~

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乱涂

September 27th, 2006 by i-m-koh-kae-ling

面对人生的未知数让我感到害怕

提起踏出下一步的勇气  总要犹豫好久

如果我是一条虫  早已作茧自缚

但人生总是给人希望

何必在乎他人的流言蜚语

没有这些批评不也走到这里

如果没有恐惧你会怎样

就如当初一个人来到这里  不也无恙

做自己爱做的事  女人我最大

何必把未来想得那么复杂

错了随时可以从头来过

年轻就是一场实验

不断的 trial and error

有结果当然最好

没有结果  把 discussion 写好

成绩也能闪闪发亮!

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我该如何帮助她呢?

September 12th, 2006 by i-m-koh-kae-ling

今天和一位中年事业女性谈话,淡淡的忧愁侵袭了我一整天。。。

中年危机,事业上面对着被淘汰的恐惧,不仅如此,她还是一位忧心的妈妈。

两个礼拜前,她的脸上洋溢着喜悦,为她的独子感到骄傲。

成绩向来名列前茅不在话下,在大学的三年来都获得奖学金赞助学费,今年就快毕业了!

今天,她辛酸、无助的眼神,想表达的是埋怨校方的无情,还是束手无策之下的求救讯息?

她说,大学讲师不近人情,非得呈上作业报告才能参加期末考,一个礼拜两份作业报告让儿子赶得焦头烂额,长期下来儿子的情绪紧绷到极点。

不敢接讲师、同学的电话,因为受不了他们的催促,同学们都不和他同组作报告,因为他的进度太慢了。

独自一人完成报告非常吃力,向讲师求助也得不到答案,他坚决一个人完成报告,不愿抄袭同学的答案。

终于,在考试时一病不起,躺在床上不愿去面对外面的世界,他要辍学了。。。

这样的决定,伤透了她的心。。。

在大学的求学过程中,课业的压力是无可避免的,就好比进入社会工作后,我们将要承受来自全球和同业的竞争,如果在大学里不学会如何妥善地处理压力,进入社会后将随时被淘汰。

不懂得与人合作,不懂得集合众人的力量,将会事倍功半。课业的压力加上负面的情绪,造成了恶性循环。

在大学里,学业成绩固然重要,但学习团队精神,如何与同伴互相学习和分享也是重要的一环。学习管理自己的情绪,不要故闭自封,不被压力给打败并培养独立解决问题的能力。我这样告诉她。。

她似乎不明白。。。儿子的心理生病了。。。

她说她自身难保,社会快速的步伐让她感到吃力,科技时代的降临让她乱了阵脚。。。同事越来越年轻了。。。而她对电脑感到乏力。。。

我该如何帮助她呢?

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两句话

September 7th, 2006 by i-m-koh-kae-ling

他说,要建立自己的自信心,来自你的领域的认知。

跌倒了要自己负责,谁都会跌倒,看谁跌得比较重,谁跌得比较多,谁又能爬起来不受伤害。

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A Simple Story of True Love and True Care

September 3rd, 2006 by i-m-koh-kae-ling

This is a very touching story that won my tears.. Got it from a forwarded email.. Please appreaciate the siblingship that you have now..

I was born in a secluded village on a mountain. Day by
day, my parents plowed the yellow dry soil with their backs toward the sky.

I have a brother who is 3 years younger than me. I
wanted to buy a handkerchief, which all girls around me seemed to have. So, one
day I stole 50 cents from my father’s drawer. Father had discovered about the
stolen money right away.


He made me and my younger brother kneel against the wall as he held a bamboo
stick in his hand.


"Who stole the money?" he asked. I was stunned, too afraid to talk.
Neither of us admitted to the fault, so he said, "Fine, if nobody wants to
admit, you two should be beaten!"


He lifted up the bamboo stick.

Suddenly, my younger brother gripped father’s hand and
said," Dad, I was the one who did it!"


The long stick smacked my brother’s back repeatedly. Father was so angry that
he kept on whipping my brother until he lost his breath. After that, he sat
down on our stone be d and scolded my brother, "You have learned to steal
from your own house now. What other embarrassing things will you be possibly
doing in the future? You should be beaten to death, you shameless thief!"


That night, my mother and I hugged my brother. His body was full of wounds from
the beating but he never shed a single tear.


In the middle of the night, all of sudden, I cried out loudly. My brother
covered my mouth with his little hand and said, "Sis, now don’t cry
anymore. Everything has happened."


I still hate myself for not having enough courage to admit what I did.


Years gone by, but the incident still seemed like it just happened yesterday. I
will never forget my brother’s expression when he protected me.


That year, my brother was 8 years old and I was 11 years old.


When my brother was in his last year of secondary school, he was accepted in an
upper secondary school in the central. At the same time, I was accepted into a
university in the province. That night, father squatted in the yard, smoking,
packet by packet. I could hear him ask my mother, "Both of our children,
they have good results? very good results?"

Mother wiped off her tears and sighed," What is
the use? How can we possibly finance both of them?"


At that time, my brother walked out, he stood in front of father and said,
"Dad, I don’t want to continue my study anymore, I have read enough
books."


Father swung his hand and slapped my brother on his face. "Why do you have
a spirit so damn weak? Even if it means I have to beg for money on the streets,
I will send you two to school until you have both finished your study!"
And then, he started to knock on every house in the village to borrow money.


I stuck out my hand as gently as I can to my brother’s swollen face, and told
him, "A boy has to continue his study; If not, he will not be able to
overcome this poverty we are experiencing."


I, on the other hand, had decided not to further my study at the university.


Nobody knew that on the next day, before dawn, my brother left the house with a
few pieces of worn-out clothes and a few dry beans. He sneaked to my side of
the bed and left a note on my pillow; "Sis, getting into a university is
not easy. I will go find a job and I will send money to you."


I held the note while sitting on my bed, and cried until I lost my voice.


That year, my brother was 17 years old; I was 20 years old.


With the money father borrowed from the whole village, and the money my brother
earned from carrying cement on his back at a construction site, finally, I
managed to get to the third year of my study in the university.


One day, while I was studying in my room, my roommate came in and told me,
"There’s a villager waiting for you outside!" Why would there be a
villager looking for me? I walked out, and I saw my brother from afar. His
whole body was covered with dirt, dust, cement and sand. I asked him, "Why
did you not tell my roommate that you are my brother?"

He replied with a smile," Look at my appearance. What will
they think if they would know that I am your brother? Won’t they laugh at
you?" I felt so touched, and tears filled my eyes. I swept away dirt and
dust from my brother’s body. And told him with a lump in my throat, "I
don’t care what people would say! You are my brother no matter what your
appearance is?"


From his pocket, he took out a butterfly hair clip. He put it on my hair and
said, "I saw all the girls in town are wearing it. So, I think you should
also have one." I could not hold back myself anymore. I pulled my brother
into my arms and cried.


That year, my brother was 20 years old; I was 23 years old.


I noticed that the broken window was repaired the first time I brought my
boyfriend home. The house was scrubbed cleaned. After my boyfriend left, I
danced like a little girl in front of my mother, "Mom, you didn’t have to
spend so much time cleaning the house!" But she told me with a
smile," It was your brother who went home early to clean the house. Didn’t
you see the wound on his hand?"


He hurt his hand while he was replacing the window." I went into my
brother’s bedroom. Looking at his thin face, I felt like there are hundreds of
needle pricked in my heart.


I applied some ointment on his wound and put a bandage on it, "Does it
hurt?" I asked him. "No, it doesn’t hurt. You know, when at the
construction site, stones keep falling on my feet. Even that could not stop me
from working." In the middle of the sentence, he stopped. I turned my back
on him and tears rolled down my face.


That year, my brother was 23 years old; I was 26 years old.


After I got married, I lived in the city. Many times my husband invited my
parents to come and live with us, but they didn’t want. They said, once they
left the village, they wouldn’t know what to do.


My brother agreed with them. He said, "Sis, you just take care of your
parents-in-law. I will take care of mom and dad here."


My husband became the director of his factory. We asked my brother to accept
the offer of being the manager in the maintenance department. But my brother
rejected the offer. He insisted on working as a repairman instead for a start.
One day, my brother was on the top of a ladder repairing a cable, when he got
electrocuted, and was sent to the hospital.

My husband and I visited him at the hospital. Looking at the white
gypsum on his leg, I grumbled, "Why did you reject the offer of being a
manager? Managers won’t do something dangerous like that. Now look at you, you
are suffering a serious injury. Why didn’t you just listen to us?"


With a serious expression on his face, he defended his decision, "Think of
brother-in-law. He just became the director, and I being uneducated, and would
become a manager, what kind of rumors would fly around?" My husband’s eyes
filled up with tears, and then I said, "But you lack in education only
because of me!"
"Why do you talk about the past?" he said and then he held my hand.


That year, he was 26 years old and I was 29 years old.

My brother was 30 years old when he married a farmer girl from the
village.
During the wedding reception, the master of ceremonies asked him, "Who is
the one person you respect and love the most?" Without even taking a time
to think, he answered," My sister." He continued by telling a story I
could not even remember.


"When I was in primary school, the school was in a different village.
Everyday, my sister and I would walk for 2 hours to school and back home. One
day, I lost the other pair of my gloves. My sister gave me one of hers. She
wore only one glove and she had to walk far. When we got home, her hands were
trembling because of the cold weather that she could not even hold her
chopsticks. From that day on, I swore that as long as I live, I would take care
of my sister and will always be good to her."


Applause filled up the room. All guests turned their attention to
me. I found it hard to speak, "In my whole life, the one I would like to
thank most is my brother," And in this happy occasion, in front of the
crowd, tears were rolling down my face again.


Love and care for the one you love every single days of your life. You may
think what you did is just a small deed, but to that someone, it may mean a
lot. Have a nice day everyone! May this story inspire you in any way!


For my brother and sister.
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Eh, learning!

September 2nd, 2006 by i-m-koh-kae-ling

Yeah! I have FINALLY graduated! This shout out seems a bit blunt, people know I have been remaining this position for quite a while already..

Anyway, this feeling never leaves me since the day I stepped out the grand arch-entrance of my uni. The joyous is in the air..

Leaving the school and the institute of my study, putting down the useless notes to load the recycle man’s mini truck, forgetting those memorizing techniques which is only useful in writing essays to submit to my examiners, saying goodbye to such meaningless negative emotions that arouse during every ending of the semesters.. =P

Why? Cause youngsters like me nowadays were well trained to accept things which have been arranged, vomit out the points during exam which is not written by yourself, as many as you can to earn more marks, to enhance pointers. This is what we used to be and what I sicked of.

Ever noticed, the meaning of learning is not limited to the courses offered only? Leaving the formal education system, discover up something called self-learning. Facing a new life, which seemed much more different from schooling, inspired me more than what I have expected.

Enjoy the talking and conversations with others, everybody, and it will always bring something enlightening. The interviewers, the workers, the cleaners, the taxi drivers, and etc., those people you seldom get along with during pass time when you can always choose not to entertain anybody except those you like to.

Every single word that comes into your ears sounds different than before.

Somehow, you never know strangers do care about each other for their healthiness, when you are sick, they teach you how to resume. The taxi driver who sent me to interview do know how to detox.

Somehow, had never smelt anything wrong with your very own opinion, but it could be wrong.

Somehow, the things never ever pick your interest up could be the one you were seeking for, undoubtedly.

These encounters initiate my own will to learning, nobody forces anybody, not restricted to any regulations, the momentum retains in a high level. Never felt too much to cover up, because there is some kind of addiction.

Being observant to daily lives, be prepared to be inspired, finding out some weakness part in own self, eliminating negative factor, enjoy being a better self tomorrow, and have a fresh day!

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湖上初雨

September 1st, 2006 by i-m-koh-kae-ling

湖上初雨

作者:北宋,苏轼

水光潋滟晴方好 

山色空朦雨亦奇 

欲把西湖比西子 

淡妆浓抹总相宜

西子,指的是西施。

西湖,风景如画,人间仙境。

湖上的景致,

横竖都是美不胜收,

所以苏轼即兴地来了一段,

把西湖比作西子!

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犯水的星期五–小心说话

August 25th, 2006 by i-m-koh-kae-ling

语言可以是伤人的武器,舌头是一把利剑,不经意的话语,犹如挥舞着一把利剑,任意地割破听者的心。。。

对不起了,本意是好的,但不恰当的应用在你身上,造成了心灵的伤害,因此眼泪不听使唤地滑落。。。

请试着将心比心,毕竟不是每个人都能承受那么直接的指责,每个人的底线也不一样,不负责任的踏进那危险地带,痕迹将不容易被抹去。

请学习说话别那么直接,每一次的尴尬,都好难修补。。。

请敏锐地感应现场的气氛,开始僵硬和变冷时,要学会收口。。。

如果语言可以毫无边界,大家都敞开心胸的话,大家就可畅所欲言,没有芥蒂。

与他共勉之。

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